Why Most Men Don’t Chase Women Anymore
From: Elonaires
It’s Not Because They’re Weak
1. Let’s kill the noise:
Men didn’t suddenly lose interest in women.
They lost interest in being lied to. Screamed at. Used. Arrested. Shamed. And then told it’s “their fault.”
—->The modern man isn’t lazy.
He’s calculating.
And when he does the math?
He walks.
Let’s break it down:
It’s Safer to Be Sexless Than to Be a Statistic
One night of regret for her?
Twenty years on the registry for him.
False accusations don’t ruin reputations—they erase lives
A man kisses wrong? It’s assault.
A man checks her phone? It’s abuse.
A man walks away? It’s “trauma response.”
Meanwhile?
She can slap him, shame him, scream in public—and still get sympathy.
The system isn’t just biased.
It’s predatory.
2. So don’t ask why men don’t approach. Ask why we built a world where every approach is a legal risk.
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The Rejection Rate Is Emotionally Unsustainable
One hundred swipes.
Two matches.
One ghost.
And one girl who used him for lunch.
Dating apps are a male humiliation simulator.
Matchmaking shows?
Public rejection for prime-time entertainment.
Even church girls carry the same arrogance as Instagram baddies—with Bible verses in their bios.
The message to men is loud:
“We don’t need you… unless you pay up, shut up, and entertain us.”
No wonder he’s tired.
3. Women Demand the World—But Offer Nothing
“I want a man who makes six figures, has a six-pack, heals my inner child, flies me out, reads my mind, and never tells me I’m wrong.”
Cool.
Now what do you bring?
“I’m enough.”
No, sis.
You’re just present.
Modern women want kings—but refuse to be queens.
They demand luxury—while calling duty “slavery.”
And when they get ghosted?
They blame “weak men.”
Nah.
Just tired ones.
4. The Fall of Masculine Economic Power
We kicked boys out of school.
Promoted women over men.
Made it “toxic” for men to lead.
And then kept the price tag of provision on his head.
Even feminists fold when the bills land.
Suddenly, it’s “You’re the man—do something.”
How?
When the economy favors her résumé, her business, her diversity quota?
We stripped men of power, then mocked them for being powerless.
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5. Hypergamy Has Gone Digital—and Delusional
Women used to marry the best in their village.
Now their DMs are full of rappers, athletes, tech bros, and married men from Dubai.
Social media gave every girl a front row seat to a billionaire lifestyle.
Now she won’t date the plumber who lives next door—but will fly out to a man who forgot her name mid-flight.
She’s not picky.
She’s delusional.
And the average man?
He’s invisible—until he wins.
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6. The Rise of Alternatives: Why Pay Premium for Chaos?
Porn doesn’t talk back.
OnlyFans doesn’t nag.
Hookups don’t ask “What are we?”
And AI girlfriends don’t file restraining orders.
Why chase a woman who demands a kingdom, when a man can rent the castle for a weekend and leave with his peace intact?
It’s not ideal.
But it’s logical.
Men don’t want less intimacy.
They just want less punishment for desiring it.
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7. The Fatherless Society Has Crushed Male Confidence
Your dad was supposed to teach you the game.
How to approach. How to lead. How to walk away.
Instead?
You got therapy speak from your mom, TikTok dating advice from girls who haven’t bathed, and school teachers who suspended boys for “toxic masculinity.”
We raised men on guilt—not guidance.
And now we wonder why they’re scared of women?
Because they were never shown how to lead them.
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Final Word: Men Didn’t Stop Loving Women—They Stopped Believing It Was Worth It
If you’re a man reading this:
You’re not broken. You’re not weak. You’re not lost.
You’re just operating in a game that was never built for your success.
But here’s the twist:
You don’t need to chase. You need to build.
Because in a world where men are punished for pursuit?
The wise man stops pursuing—and starts attracting.
Build your mind. Guard your peace. Grow your worth.
And let the circus keep spinning.
Because the moment you stop playing?
You start winning.
©️ ELONAIRES
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